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^And I know that toaster trick because I do it every day (whereas he only does it on the weekends), and feel that I've figured out the best way to do this and many other tasks. I sound like such a control freak, but it is how my household runs best. My husband is very involved, but there will always be a difference in mom's work and dad's work.