Theirs, Not Yours

Your university might not be their university.
"...we have the right to narrow down colleges based on affordability, distance, academic ratings, safety, and quality of life. But once those parameters are agreed upon by parents and child, then it is up to the student to decide where he or she feels the most at home."

https://grownandflown.com/college-choice-all-about-them-not-about-us/